The Problem with Expert Advice
Whenever I write about a subject someone invariably points out that it doesn't fit for her family. The same holds true for what's written in many books by experts about parenting and families.
The reason, I believe, is that you as the parent are the expert on your family. Sure, I may have some knowledge to share or insight to offer - mainly because I'm on the outside looking in - but you know the personalities of the people in your home. It is impossible for me to step into your shoes.
So be open to agree or disagree. I love to hear both. We share our stories and I learn from you as much as you learn from me.
The reason, I believe, is that you as the parent are the expert on your family. Sure, I may have some knowledge to share or insight to offer - mainly because I'm on the outside looking in - but you know the personalities of the people in your home. It is impossible for me to step into your shoes.
So be open to agree or disagree. I love to hear both. We share our stories and I learn from you as much as you learn from me.
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