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5/22/09

Responsibility II

A recent article in Child Development (Vol. 80, Issue 1, How Adolescents Come to See Themselves as More Responsible through Participation in Youth Programs) highlights the importance of work for developing a sense of responsibility in our youth.

The researchers surveyed over 100 high school-age teens about their summer experiences. Those teens who participated in programs that asked them to carry out demanding tasks and held them accountable for their work were most successful in learning responsibility.

It mattered not what skills were learned. Rather,
programs in which young people are called to perform tasks that were boring, difficult, or obligatory were most likely to develop characteristics like responsibility and self-descipline.


We can expect far more from our teens than society would have us believe. They are truly young adults and capable of participating in the adult world. Hand-in-hand with privileges go responsibilities. You'll be surprised at the results.

2 Comments:

  • Very interesting. But why would a boring task teach responsibility and self-discipline?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at Tuesday, May 26, 2009  

  • Most tasks are fun and interesting the first time we do them; that's how we motivate kids in the first place! The repetition and banality cause them to feel like an unwelcome burden. Then we do them because we must and not because we want to. Isn't that what we call responsibility?

    By Blogger Dr. Spiegel, at Tuesday, May 26, 2009  

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